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sacrificing Who You Are compromises us all

20 Friday May 2016

Posted by charlon bobo in conscious living

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ascension, evolutionary, free to be, freedom, spiritual, transformation, truth

We are being beckoned by the greatness of All That Is into the fullness of Who We Are.

Along the journey, I notice old (but still very prominent) paradigm patterning — especially among women — compromising the very (sacred) essence of Who We Are.

We comply. We acquiesce. We maintain a pleasant persona. We defer. We apologize inappropriately. We remain silent in the face of abhorrent behavior. We silence ourselves. We silence other women. “Ssshhhhhhhhh,” we say.

Think about the many ways you are willing to sacrifice your unique expression. No, really. Think about it. Why do you do it? To keep the peace? To be accepted by others? To maintain the status quo? To simply fit in?

There’s a cost, you know. The cost is that we squelch our voices for so long, in so many little (seemingly insignificant) ways, that we forget we have a voice. When we forget we have a voice, we stop speaking (why bother?). When we stop speaking, our Divine life essence diminishes. When our Divine life essence diminishes, dreams (and entire life manifestations) cease to be realized in their fullness.

When we silently sacrifice our unique expression, we are subconsciously, but actively, participating in the compromise of ourselves, all women and all girl children. I ask: What deity does this behavior honor? In its perpetuation, what value does it serve?

Speak up, I say! Express yourself in the fullness of Who You Are, I say! You have a voice gifted to you by the Creatrix/Creator. No societal dictate or collective, silent agreement has authority over your personal expression. You are only accountable to yourself, your Creatrix/Creator, and The Collective that is impacted by the absence of your unique voice and your inability to express the fullness of Who You Are.

Too much is lost in the “shush.” Collectively and individually, we cannot afford the cost. Let it out, Sisters. Let it all out. You came to express the fullness of Who You Are. Let it be so. In every word, thought, action and feeling… let it be so.

 

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Mary was imprisoned by her story…

17 Tuesday May 2016

Posted by charlon bobo in conscious living

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ascension, change, evolutionary, luminary, new paradigm, spiritual, transformation

… and I couldn’t help her unless and until she did this ONE thing. (You’ll find out what it was as you read our private email exchange after she requested a fr*ee 15-minute session.)

Mary’s original session application said:

I was raped repeatedly at age two by my step father. I was abused by him in all other ways throughout my childhood. I have a lot of intense fears of many things. I have lots of anxiety. I wake up hyperventilating at times and have had hives from stress.

Eight months ago I got out of a two-year relationship with a sociopath, habitual liar, and sex addict.  

I have had PTSD several times. I am currently in a relationship where past issues are being triggered to come up for release.  I have felt like I am having PTSD again on some level.  Wishing I were dead has come up a few times in the past two weeks as a result.  I feel I can’t keep going through this anymore. My heart can’t take any more pain.

Mary’s second submission later that day:

I have thought of some more things I want to add. I feel that I am very much emotionally messed up. I feel there is so much I can’t seem to control within me as a result of the childhood trauma I experienced. Here are additional things I wanted to add that I have noticed about myself.

* Trying to control things (to feel safe from getting hurt)
* Hard to go with the flow
* Insecure
* Angry
* Feel like a victim at times
* Hyper-vigilance
* Need help to open my heart to receiving love
* Don’t love myself


As energy healers, we navigate the interesting and often heart-wrenching twists-and-turns of working with prospects and clients.
The degree of damage that we carry as individuals is enormous and the pain we drag with us becomes unbearable. That’s when people often reach out to us for support.

I didn’t respond to Mary’s request for a session until the next day, which is very unlike me. I usually respond within minutes and yet I could not move into the space occupied by Mary because it was FULL of her story. I knew I could not help her by joining her there.

With careful contemplation and extensive spiritual preparation, I responded:

Hello, Mary~

Thank you for your inquiry about a 15-minute session.

As an energy worker, it is vital for me to ascertain the clients who will benefit the most from my services, including the complimentary 15-minute session.

From experience, clients who achieve the greatest results are those who have moved beyond their story and the retelling of their story into a position of taking full responsibility for directing their lives. This isn’t to say what occurred in your history can be ignored or that it didn’t shape your current experience, but as luminaries we MUST be willing to step into something new. The way to do that is to consciously begin functioning in new ways and be fully responsible and accountable for every aspect of our lives.

You are not a victim of your circumstances unless you continue to choose this position with your words, thoughts, actions and feelings, feeding and perpetuating the “old story.”

That is not a blaming statement. I, too, was physically and sexually invaded as a child and it was only *I* who could decide at a pivotal moment-of-truth at the age of 36 to live consciously, with meaning and value that *I* determined, and not based on my childhood experiences.

I meet clients at the point of their willingness to take full ownership of their lives. And that’s the only place their world opens up. I am a facilitator and can only do my part. Clients who realize miraculous results in working with me are those who have “stepped up” like never before, often into the greatest challenge of their lives.

As unpopular as it is, to do my best, sometimes I must use words as a means of accountability. That is my gift. So, I invite you to explore these comments and choose how you want the rest of your life to unfold. Whatever you decide is exactly what you will experience; truly any scenario is possible for you, but it must first be emphatically claimed and declared by you as your desire.

I will check in with you next week via email to determine a best-direction (a session or other resources) based on what you decide and what you experience in the coming days.

In the mean time, I HIGHLY recommend listening DAILY to the most recent transmission from Children of the Sun and allowing the encoded healing that it contains to support you.

Know that the Universe fully supports the vision you hold for yourself; make it a good one!

Best,
Charlon

I hit the “send” button, releasing this message into the great All That Is. I had done my best job at honoring my intuitive knowing that I had to do more than agree to hosting her session. I had to give a voice to truth.

Later that afternoon, I opened an email from Mary, not having any idea what her response would be. Whatever it was, all was well. It had to be. I was pleasantly surprised and delighted to read:

Mary said:

Thank you, Charlon.

It’s interesting that you sent me this message today. Last night while laying in bed thinking about things, I came to the conclusion that I am not my past or what happened to me. I am a wonderful person on many levels and the only thing that keeps me trapped in victim mode is myself. I realized that I must tell a different story and release the old stuff coming up and just like cleaning house, get rid of the last remaining bits of that old story. 

That is the opportunity that I have now to finally release it as all it is now is remnants of emotions from the past. I chose to react differently this time, change the story to one where I get what I want and deserve as a child of God. I will not claim that old story as mine ever again. I am stepping up into myself. Today I feel more love and empowerment!

… [I] feel better emotionally today than I have for two weeks. I am now taking responsibility for my part in creating my life. I have, this morning, emphatically claimed how I want my life to be and the telling of a different story.
 
Thank you.
 
Love,
Mary

Wow. Just wow.

So, what’s in the illumined insight from this story?

  1. As hard as it is to change the habit, we MUST choose to thrive and tell a different story if we want to experience a different life.
  2. We choose a different story with every word, thought, action and feeling.
  3. It is our Divine birthright to direct the course of our life by declaring that it is so; by taking full authority.
  4. Miracles begin where/when we “step up.”
  5. When it is our sacred duty to speak truth, we must. When we do this with humility and to preserve the value of our unique gifts, we make ourselves available for those who are truly ready to receive the benefits of our services.


Mary changed her life today. And so can you.

~ * ~ *~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~

A personal note to Mary: I bow in awe to the great courage it took to change the trajectory of your life. Thank you for allowing me the privilege of having a front-row seat to your amazing transformation. You are a true inspiration and I wish you a miracle-filled journey.

In love and support,
Charlon

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want more joy? let life live you

12 Thursday May 2016

Posted by charlon bobo in conscious living

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ascension, be, freedom, magic, metamorphosis, new paradigm, transformation, truth

Khalil Gilbran said…

The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain. Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter’s oven?

When you’re “in it” it is a near-impossible task to see the beauty and perfection of life’s happenings.

Years ago I wondered:

If I can look back at an experience and see the wisdom and value in
experience, why cannot I feel the fullness, wisdom and value WHILE I’m
going through it? Further, why cannot it be my conscious experience that
BEFORE I go through an experience, I sense what’s coming and go
into it willingly, welcoming whatever comes, knowing there will be a value
for me?

Are you willing to be the person who purposely leans into all of life’s experiences (especially the sorrowful ones) and allows the fire of life to refine you? To break open your heart just like the seeds in the forest that only open after a wildfire? (It’s no coincidence that nature and we are connected by so many parallels.)

If so, you will experience the fullness of joy, because that is the natural result of being actively and fully engaged in life; in What Is, regardless of circumstances. When you allow life to live you (instead of the reverse), there is a sweet, silent peace that wraps your heart and assures you that All Is Well and that circumstances have no innate power to destroy you. Circumstances only allow you to choose what you will take from them. You are ultimately defined by how much you allow life to shape and refine you by being a willing participant in all life’s experiences.

 

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